10 Simple Ways To Connect With Your Child – Week 9

WEEK 9 – Be a real person. Share yourself.

Be accessible. Tell your children a story about yourself from when you were their age. Let the know what you enjoyed, what you wanted to be, how you spent your time, your friends, your school, your teachers, anything. Children love to hear stories from when their parents were growing up.

Be real. Admit your failings. Sometimes it can feel as though we shouldn’t let our guard down, that we should set a shining example for our kids. But if we never show them the whole picture, mistakes and all, how can they learn? You do not have to be perfect. What better way to connect with our kids than to show them that we are human too. If we lose our patience, or snap or yell, just say sorry. Come clean. Tell them “I made a mistake and I’m sorry. I’ll try harder.” 

If you are joining us for the first time ~ welcome! At the end of this post you will find the links for week 1 through 7. Each week for ten weeks, I’ll be sharing one simple idea that you can implement today to foster a more connected relationship with your child. It is my hope that by the end of the ten weeks we will be more present for our children, and more mindful of the type of parent we want to be. With each idea being so simple, and with only one intention to focus on each week, I know we can do this. Will you join me?

Here are the links for all 10 weeks of this series.
Week 1See them.
Week 2Listen.
Week 3Say yes.
Week 4Begin each day with play.
Week 5Come from a place of love.
Week 6Believe in them.
Week 7Let them be themselves.
Week 8Switch off, tune in.
Week 9Be a real person. Share yourself.
Week 10Be kind to yourself. You are enough.

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6 thoughts on “10 Simple Ways To Connect With Your Child – Week 9

  1. Excellent advice! I’ve found it very helpful this past week, with four kids including a newborn, to be upfront with my children about the fact that I am tired and really need their help. They respond to the honesty and straightforwardness of that request!

    • It’s the best lesson for them isn’t it? That we’re not Supermom and it’s ok to ask for help. I bet they’re only too happy to help out with their beautiful new sister too!

  2. Fantastic post Ness…i have actually being doing this a little more with my teen lately as we have had some clashes because i have been so tired with the twins but still need to fit in driving lessons and all the teen stuff. Amazing what a little honesty can do i agree!
    Just love this series!

    • Thanks Jode! You inspire me with the way you toggle between teens and toddlers. I’m exhausted just thinking about it. I’m hoping that by being real for R now, it will stand me in good stead as he enters those teen years so that it keeps the lines of communication open.

  3. Pingback: 10 simple ways to connect with your child ~ Week 1 | One Perfect Day

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